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Post by grneyes1281 on Oct 17, 2010 0:08:30 GMT -5
sorry, i posted this as a reply to a thread, when i meant to post it as another topic. my mistake...still getting the hang of this board!
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Post by JC on Oct 17, 2010 6:52:34 GMT -5
I think your post is perfect where it is! Have you scrolled through this thread yet? There's a lot of advice on this subject.
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Post by Karen on Oct 17, 2010 8:27:48 GMT -5
Just out of curiosity, are you on any hormonal treatment at the moment? For me, that seemed to be part of the cause of a sore vag after sex. I think it had something to do with how dry the BC was making me, and no matter how much lube I used, it wasn't enough.
But Jenaya was right - look through the thread - you'll see a lot of different ideas to try!
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Post by Heather on Nov 1, 2010 0:11:35 GMT -5
I agree, the whole "they stick things in you during a lap" thing really creeps me out too.
As for pain with sex... and the penetration orgasm thing... I don't mean to brag, but my husband is so amazing I used to orgasm every single time with penetration. That was before the endo started being all "eff you". Now I cannot orgasm with penetration, at all. I still can with clitoral stimulation, but then I have cramps afterwards from my uterus going into convulsions.
One thing that helps us a lot, that I haven't seen anyone post--if it's too painful for me any other way, I lay on my stomach and Sam lays on my back, and his legs are outside of mine. I think that makes it so he can't get very deep, but he LOVES it and it usually doesn't hurt for me. Yes, it is one of those "hurry up and get done" things, but I don't want him to suffer along with me, so I don't mind.
Bullets are AMAZING. A. MA. ZING. Check out liberator.com, they have a ton of cool stuff. I also take 2 200mg Celebrex about an hour before sex, otherwise it just hurts too much. And--this is kinda strange, but I swear it worked--last time I orgasmed, I was having these horrible cramps afterwards. Worse than usual. So I just layed in bed and kinda willed my pelvis to relax. It took a couple minutes, but it actually worked enough to where I could get up and walk around.
Also, if anyone has questions, I've been dealing with the sex pain thing for about 5 years now, and I am NOT shy. I'll tell you anything you want to know (so choose your questions wisely, jk).
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Post by jendo on Feb 8, 2011 22:14:22 GMT -5
Something that made my cramps from orgasm go away is going on the pill. I think it's the hormone imbalance that helped. I need to come off for other reasons and the pain will come back but I think it's good that I learned that it gave me hope that it can go away again....I hope it helps some one else too....
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Post by Karen on Feb 9, 2011 7:23:28 GMT -5
If you had good results on the pill, consider looking into bio-identical progesterone. Same idea as the pill, but the bio-identical hormones have the same molecular structure as what your body produces so there aren't the side effects of BC (synthetic hormones). Best part is that you can customize a dose for what your body needs, not some mass-produced set dose of BC. Just my two cents.
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Post by JC on Feb 9, 2011 7:49:27 GMT -5
"Pain" and "orgasm" shouldn't mix. It's so not fair!!
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Post by hellsbells on Feb 9, 2011 13:51:11 GMT -5
I get it too, for a couple of years now :-(
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Post by JC on Feb 9, 2011 14:36:07 GMT -5
LOL but what's funny is that it doesn't stop me! The awesomeness of an orgasm still outweighs the pain of endo. HAHA!
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Post by hellsbells on Feb 9, 2011 14:41:47 GMT -5
I agree. Totally worth it.
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Post by gemstone on Feb 9, 2011 15:53:55 GMT -5
I've started having some pain with orgasm, not much, but it's obviously pain. Still do it though!!
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Post by jem on Feb 28, 2011 13:56:57 GMT -5
What is the tennis ball therapy?
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Post by danniv on Mar 8, 2011 7:58:50 GMT -5
am loving these ideas. Virgin sex is what we resort to now except we call it spex. thank you!!!
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Post by alana273 on Mar 21, 2011 14:38:13 GMT -5
I commented on another thread, but was brought here. I'm a new member and so happy to have found this page! I thought there was something wrong with me because I used to have sex all the time. Now when I try to have it, it feels like he's tearing me apart when he tries to get inside of me. I am so glad other people are having the same experiences as I am. It sucks because I desperately want to have sex, but haven't been able to in 3 years. I am so happy to have found you guys, it's so nice to be able to talk to people about stuff that no one else understands.
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Post by pretty on Mar 21, 2011 14:50:45 GMT -5
I sometimes go ahead and 'go with the flow' since we're ttc, but at the same time I just know it's so much better if we do a lot of foreplay, since it seems like I'm tighter some times of the month also with hormones and my cycle, there are a couple days of the month where we HAVE to use lube and take it really slow. Sex is still good though if I avoid the painful days and then take it pretty slow and use lube on some days too. I feel you on the tighness and 'burning' sometimes Alana! jeeze. But like you said it's nice to at least have others going through the same thing huh?
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