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Post by 1234 on Mar 20, 2012 8:18:29 GMT -5
Nicolle, we've all done that. At least, I have. It's one of the problems of the internet--these people are findable. I'm really sorry. Don't feel stupid, just be glad this guy is out of your life.
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Post by hellsbells on Mar 20, 2012 15:22:21 GMT -5
Aww I'm sorry he made you feel bad, but as rust says, he's out of your life now. Don't let him back in your head!
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Post by painttheseconds on Mar 20, 2012 17:29:28 GMT -5
Thanks girls. You both made me feel a lot better. He doesn't deserve any space in my head anyways.
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Post by semicolon on Mar 20, 2012 19:11:18 GMT -5
Everyone tries to make it look like they're living the life on FB, but really who knows what's up. You are right, put him out of your head. During surgery recovery we all have our moments of wallowing combined with too much time on our hands, I did the same thing!
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Post by painttheseconds on Mar 20, 2012 19:45:01 GMT -5
That's the thing semi I felt great the past few days and all of a sudden the last two days I've been an emotional wreck about everything. I don't know what's wrong with me. Can I just blame it on recent surgery?  |
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Post by Karen on Mar 20, 2012 20:02:08 GMT -5
Absolutely, you can blame it on recovery!  I've gone through bouts like that myself, wonder why we're not together, wonder why they were so awful, wonder why I even put up with it for so long. I know I don't know your back-story about this guy, but I can relate. And just look at how strong you are these days without him! |
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Post by 1234 on Mar 21, 2012 8:17:46 GMT -5
so I'm now struggling with anemia. Not surprising, after that colonoscopy fiasco, but frustrating. These past 5 days have been really tough. I've really had to force myself not to faint, and did pass out/fall asleep in my cube on Monday afternoon. Even took a taxi home, instead of biking, so you know that was an extreme situation!!!
on the bright side though, I look sort of interesting with a stark white face. Normally my cheeks are really red/rosy (I hate it), so this look is a nice departure from the normal.
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Post by JC on Mar 21, 2012 10:26:41 GMT -5
Oh no how scary!! I hope you're ok!!
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Post by JC on Mar 21, 2012 10:31:58 GMT -5
Paint, I totally can relate to your feelings about your ex. I have this ex that basically ruined my life, stole things from me, ripped me off for A LOT of money, just destroyed my trust in people for a long time. After I dumped his stupid ass he went on and had this incredible life with an absurd amount of luck that hit him and he would just gloat about how lucky he was. I still hate how he ruined my life and then got away from everything completely free from all responsibility while I had to pick up the pieces and take responsibility for everything he had done. The only thing that makes me feel better is knowing that his day will come and he'll eventually get what he deserves. If I feel myself get mad then I tell myself that I will NOT let him have power over me ever again. Getting angry about him makes me feel like I'm letting him control me which I absolutely refuse to do. Also, I am extremely glad that I found out who he truly was and am no longer stuck with with someone like him. It's hard to get past it all but at least he's out of your life now and can't hurt you anymore.
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Post by hellsbells on Mar 25, 2012 10:38:38 GMT -5
Aaarghhh!!!! A friend (same one, same one) has just infuriated me an arsey text message, followed by a bitchy one, followed by an abusive one. I have enough stress in my life right now about the move without this on top! It's a GLORIOUS Sunday here, and she's ruined it for me with her damned nastiness!!
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Post by 1234 on Mar 25, 2012 13:13:49 GMT -5
THat's so horrible, Helen. Are you sure she's still really a friend? Friendships shouldn't hurt more than they give you love and support. I'm so sorry--that sort of thing is so hurtful, particularly the bitchy/abusive texts.
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Post by semicolon on Mar 25, 2012 18:35:35 GMT -5
If its even crossed your mind, I'd say delete her out if your phone before you convince yourself not to! Life's too short for extra bs from toxic people.
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Post by hellsbells on Mar 27, 2012 11:06:40 GMT -5
We've had bust ups before, things settle down but I'm always on edge when I have anything to do with her because I worry she'll lose her temper (again). I can't get rid - she's an integral group of my friends and I don't want to upset the rest of them. I've known her since I was about 7 and she's always been the same. Hot headed, bad temper, demanding, aggressive. She basically organised a party for her sister and invited us all to it. then a few weeks later asked for a financial contribution for it, which I didn't really have any onjection to, but on Sunday she sent out arsey texts about not having received the money yet. I calmy tried to point out that she didn't tell us when by, and then I got hit with it. So I'm no longer going. Moving away in a couple of months and I can't say I'm sad about leaving her behind. She causes me too much stress. Rust, you're absolutely right!! I never feel love and support from her. She seems pee'd off and jealous when things go well for me, and attentive and nosey when they aren't - I think she invented schadenfreude!!
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Post by JC on Apr 7, 2012 9:31:39 GMT -5
My gym clothes are getting awfully lonely in my closet  |
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Post by 1234 on Apr 7, 2012 14:10:34 GMT -5
I'm sorry, Jenaya; that's a horrible feeling. I depend on being active so much. I hope you can get back to the gym soon.
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I've gone through bouts like that myself, wonder why we're not together, wonder why they were so awful, wonder why I even put up with it for so long. I know I don't know your back-story about this guy, but I can relate. And just look at how strong you are these days without him!
