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Post by akcheryl on Nov 16, 2006 20:03:33 GMT -5
Oh yeah, it's especially depressing not being able to have a baby today... I just found out that a girl I know is pregnant and wants an abortion. Hopefully she will change her mind and at least give the baby up for adoption. Heaven knows there are a lot of us women our there who can't have our own babies and I know that personally I would love to adopt a baby.
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Post by Jenn on Nov 16, 2006 23:57:45 GMT -5
hi akcheryl! don't give up...i'm also 24 and i have a son that was conceived 2 weeks after my first lap. i also was supposed to have an ovary removed but, didn't and was supposed to go to a specialist shortly after...so keep your spirits up. i'm not sure but, you should have a better chance after the surgery. i wasn't supposed to have sex for 2 weeks after and we did a few days early...i had surgery the 20 something of june had to wait almost 2 weeks and by aug. 1st i found out i was pregnant. i am not telling this to make you feel bad but, i want you to realize it can still happen to you! good luck! i will keep you and evryone else on this board in my prayers!
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Post by akcheryl on Nov 17, 2006 0:59:59 GMT -5
thanks. I am keeping my hopes up - my mom had stage 4 endo before menopause and she had all but 1/2 an ovary removed. Her doctors told her that she had to get pregnant within 6 months or she'd never be able to... Well, I was born almost three years later and my brother two years after that!
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Post by ouchy on Nov 17, 2006 1:30:02 GMT -5
^Wow! And on 1/2 of one ovary!!! Just goes to show that even late-stage endo doesn't always render someone infertile!!! There is hope for all of us!!! Thanks for posting that, Cheryl!
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Post by needadvise on Nov 18, 2006 11:36:41 GMT -5
i have gotten pregnant naturally before, but it was a decade ago. and then i had gotten pregnant 1st round iui/clomid 2 yrs ago, and we now are naturally ttc for 14 cycles, no luck:(
it was al unexplained infertility, but now endo is suspected, however i have read it doesn't always make you infertile, and in some cases can just make it take longer and a bit harder to get pregnant. if i were fertile, i'd have about 20 kids or more by now, so if i do have endo that explain alot, plus my bad o pains, and feelings of af way before af.
my dr wants me to get pregnant now, and we are trying, and it's alot of pressure, because time maybe of the essense, but dh isn't ready for insemination again for awhile, so iam trying naturally as best i can. that may give me 9 months of pain free freedom. my mom had a hysterectomy at 35, so iam 31, and scared.
add me to the list
hugs, michelle
ps- we ttc-ed 3+ years before going to RE for help with our baby
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Post by needadvise on Nov 18, 2006 11:40:06 GMT -5
iam so glad to hear there is hope for all of us, and i believe that! i just had an HSG so supposedly iam more fertile 3 months after. i hope to get dh good, lol, and maybe a natural bfp. i have never been on BC in my life! (but don't get me wrong, only w/ serious partners, lol. had to make that clear, and only 3).
people who get pregnant so easilly make me jealous, and those who don't wanna be, but are make me angry. i had a friend with multiple abortions, like a method of BC and it made me too sick. we aren't friends now. i just don't know why God allows the good to go through so much bad:(
chelle
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Post by needadvise on Nov 18, 2006 11:44:08 GMT -5
ps- weird i had hsg yesterday (my 2nd..had one 3 yrs ago), and i thought it was a piece of cake. some spotting afterwards, but i'd have 1 of those every week, instead of a lap, lol...lap scares me!
GL to fellow ttc-ers!
ps- last time i took 3 months ovulex, and nothing happened, so i think it's just hype, preying on us who are ttc and vunerable.
ok. my last post i promise, lol
michelle
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Post by denna on Nov 18, 2006 23:34:34 GMT -5
hi michelle,
let me get this right- how many children have ou got? 1 or 2? i hope what they said about hsg is right.i'm not very sure but after i check my temperature using fertility friend, i don't seem to ovulate..may be this is my major problem? my OP was positive but my temperature flatuatate..but still hoping..
don't worry, the more post the better lol
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Post by denna on Dec 10, 2006 1:29:00 GMT -5
hi guys..
got my 2nd period after my zoladex shot. this month trying for clomid,hcg and iui..when to scan last friday and the follicles are in good size. will be having a shot in a while and going for iui next tuesday morning..hope this will work...
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Post by ouchy on Dec 10, 2006 11:08:52 GMT -5
good luck, denna! fingers crossed!
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Post by denna on Dec 10, 2006 21:54:41 GMT -5
i hope ouchy...i was very depress and emotional last week and still is..dunno why..could it be the clomid or may be it is just me..hubby gave me pregnly yesterday..can't wait for tomorrow..and another 2 weeks...
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Post by denna on Dec 24, 2006 1:56:11 GMT -5
akcheryl,
yes you are still very young. i never thought delaying pregnancy will cost this much it caused lots of pain-emotionally, financial even physically.
don't worry too much..when there is will, there is a way..i know many ppl who don't do anything but wait..that won't work.
never say you can't coz miracle do happens
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Post by denna on Dec 24, 2006 1:58:04 GMT -5
hi..another 4 days to go but i'm detrmine to check tomorrow.it's christmas and i have a good feeling..been feeling tired,nausea lately and i fell that i'm getting 'bigger'............
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Post by Jenn on Dec 29, 2006 18:02:27 GMT -5
Good luck Denna!!!
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Post by denna on Jan 5, 2007 1:05:48 GMT -5
Hi jenn, hi all..
the IUI failed..i was sad but will try again this month. the specialist that did that to me have asked another specialist to do it for me- this particular specialist has just return from fertility training and soon to start an IVF here..i might be her first patient..anyway, i hope the following IUI will work..had lots of stress last month with work and life..this month will take it easy..planning to take a shrot break and stay home..relax.
to all happy new year 2007..and keep on working on it..i'm sure by end of this year all of us ( ops...to those who wants ) will big belly ha ha..
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