Oh yeah, it's especially depressing not being able to have a baby today... I just found out that a girl I know is pregnant and wants an abortion. Hopefully she will change her mind and at least give the baby up for adoption. Heaven knows there are a lot of us women our there who can't have our own babies and I know that personally I would love to adopt a baby.
hi akcheryl! don't give up...i'm also 24 and i have a son that was conceived 2 weeks after my first lap. i also was supposed to have an ovary removed but, didn't and was supposed to go to a specialist shortly after...so keep your spirits up. i'm not sure but, you should have a better chance after the surgery. i wasn't supposed to have sex for 2 weeks after and we did a few days early...i had surgery the 20 something of june had to wait almost 2 weeks and by aug. 1st i found out i was pregnant. i am not telling this to make you feel bad but, i want you to realize it can still happen to you! good luck! i will keep you and evryone else on this board in my prayers!
thanks. I am keeping my hopes up - my mom had stage 4 endo before menopause and she had all but 1/2 an ovary removed. Her doctors told her that she had to get pregnant within 6 months or she'd never be able to... Well, I was born almost three years later and my brother two years after that!
Post by needadvise on Nov 18, 2006 11:36:41 GMT -5
i have gotten pregnant naturally before, but it was a decade ago. and then i had gotten pregnant 1st round iui/clomid 2 yrs ago, and we now are naturally ttc for 14 cycles, no luck:(
it was al unexplained infertility, but now endo is suspected, however i have read it doesn't always make you infertile, and in some cases can just make it take longer and a bit harder to get pregnant. if i were fertile, i'd have about 20 kids or more by now, so if i do have endo that explain alot, plus my bad o pains, and feelings of af way before af.
my dr wants me to get pregnant now, and we are trying, and it's alot of pressure, because time maybe of the essense, but dh isn't ready for insemination again for awhile, so iam trying naturally as best i can. that may give me 9 months of pain free freedom. my mom had a hysterectomy at 35, so iam 31, and scared.
add me to the list
ps- we ttc-ed 3+ years before going to RE for help with our baby
Post by needadvise on Nov 18, 2006 11:40:06 GMT -5
iam so glad to hear there is hope for all of us, and i believe that! i just had an HSG so supposedly iam more fertile 3 months after. i hope to get dh good, lol, and maybe a natural bfp. i have never been on BC in my life! (but don't get me wrong, only w/ serious partners, lol. had to make that clear, and only 3).
people who get pregnant so easilly make me jealous, and those who don't wanna be, but are make me angry. i had a friend with multiple abortions, like a method of BC and it made me too sick. we aren't friends now. i just don't know why God allows the good to go through so much bad:(
let me get this right- how many children have ou got? 1 or 2? i hope what they said about hsg is right.i'm not very sure but after i check my temperature using fertility friend, i don't seem to ovulate..may be this is my major problem? my OP was positive but my temperature flatuatate..but still hoping..
got my 2nd period after my zoladex shot. this month trying for clomid,hcg and iui..when to scan last friday and the follicles are in good size. will be having a shot in a while and going for iui next tuesday morning..hope this will work...
i hope ouchy...i was very depress and emotional last week and still is..dunno why..could it be the clomid or may be it is just me..hubby gave me pregnly yesterday..can't wait for tomorrow..and another 2 weeks...
the IUI failed..i was sad but will try again this month. the specialist that did that to me have asked another specialist to do it for me- this particular specialist has just return from fertility training and soon to start an IVF here..i might be her first patient..anyway, i hope the following IUI will work..had lots of stress last month with work and life..this month will take it easy..planning to take a shrot break and stay home..relax.
to all happy new year 2007..and keep on working on it..i'm sure by end of this year all of us ( ops...to those who wants ) will big belly ha ha..