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Post by needadvise on Jan 21, 2007 10:22:39 GMT -5
i can't stand much more of this. i am taking clomid, i O-ed great, bd perfectly and af is coming, and BFN. i just don't understand how everyone in the world seems so fertile, and can have a baby when they want and i feel so alone cause i cant. i know something is horribly wrong with me. my hsg was fine, BW fine, and dh is fine, so it must be horrible endo, cause i don't know what else could interfere and take so long for me to get pregnant. iam afraid of facing the truth via lap, i really don't think it's going to do me much good, and honestly, my drs don't even wanna do one on me.
i read that the majority of women w/ endo get preggo, sometimes it just takes alittle longer, but apparently iam in the minorty who never will. iam trying 1 last round of this stuff. i can't stand the dissapointment anymore. doing everything right and failing every month just takes too much out of you.
sorry i just needed a vent badly. seems like everyone around me is getting pregnant except me, and i was always the healthy one, or so we thought:(
michelle
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Post by ouchy on Jan 21, 2007 12:23:47 GMT -5
I think a lot of women need a lap to achieve pregnancy. Not sure, but that seems to be what I gather from reading. Again, you won't know for sure without a lap, but that's another, already started thread.
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Post by akcheryl on Jan 21, 2007 14:19:27 GMT -5
From my experience and what I've heard, laps give a woman higher chances of pregnancy for about six months following the surgery. Is there a specific reason your doctors don't want to perform a lap on you?
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Post by needadvise on Jan 21, 2007 20:52:43 GMT -5
my re aand my ob said it would be 'unecessary surgery', since i got preggo 2 yrs ago they both seem alittle too confident that i can easilly achieve pregnancy again, while in my personal opinion ALOT can happen in 2 yrs...am i wrong? i mean at least discuss it. i might be afraid but come on...i can't believe 1 out of 2 isn't pushing at all. i thought maybe my ob doesn't know how to do a lap lol until i saw all his 'lap awards' on his walls. i don't get why i seem to be immune to needing one in their opinions. sounds weird to me.
my ob just says take the clomid and soon i'll see you pregnant hopefully this month (but not), and down the line we'll discuss a permenant solution for the pain if you want, but let's not discuss that right now. (i take that as meaning, organs removed)
weird right? that is why i wanna see dr #3, but i have asked for so many referrals lately they are now refusing me for the time being. frustrating. i just wanna know why they won't take this seriously and why i can't get pregnant if they are so darned sure that i can. maybe another clomid month will show them. if i do get pregnant i'd likely do most anything after that cause i suspect like with my last the pain will increase even more so, and more then this i cannot take and i can take ALOT!
hugs, michelle
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Post by denna on Jan 21, 2007 21:03:05 GMT -5
so sorry to hear that michelle..
i really don't know what to say as we are in the same shoe..about to give up..i just told dh that we we realy can't have baby we will go an travel the world...
are you on clomid alone?
i'm on 2nd round of clomid and IUI. i had a laparotomy 6 months a go and did hsg all all fine..i have no problem but getting pregnant. at this moment i don't feel a thing..i keep myself busy with baking and othe rstuff so that i won't really think about it..will start swimming lesson soon..
hang in there...take care
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