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Post by baby bonnet on Aug 15, 2006 12:12:43 GMT -5
Thank you everyone, morning sickness has really kicked in only it's more like all day sickness. I called the nurse to see if there is something that I can take to at least keep some food down. I haven't been able to keep anything down and am starting to feel light headed and weak. My co-worker's daughter-in-law just lost her pregnancy and she got pregnant around the same time that I did. That is really scary to hear and has made me very nervous. I'm just trying to take it one day at a time and not think about the things that may go wrong.
Thank You Everyone for your kind words.
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Post by meldart on Aug 15, 2006 12:25:26 GMT -5
When I had morning sickness it was all day sickness as well, if i was on my feet I was being sick! The only thing I found that I could keep down was Lemondade if I sipped it (not the real stuff - just the fizzy one). That's the only thing that worked for me apart from that im all out of ideas!
Think your doing the right thing by trying to not think about things to much, don't need to stress yourself out to much. There are 2 ladies at my work who both fell pregnant at the same time, sadly one lost her baby and the other is absolutly fine and huge I might add!
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Post by denna on Aug 16, 2006 21:08:41 GMT -5
hi..didn't check this tread ealier- but i'm about to say that you should change your username as it sound so negative and but glad it turn out to be good...
hi ann, we are in the same shoe..but keep praying, one day it will happen. adoptin in my place is not that expensive, may be around USD1000 or 2000 but i am still not ready.may be because me and my hubby are from a different race.he's an indian and i look more like chinese..it will be very obvious if we would adopt and to find mix parentage baby for adoption is like hitting for a jackpot.will consider but not now for me..
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Post by denna on Aug 16, 2006 21:15:36 GMT -5
i need to add..i'm talking from the child point of view.i do not want the kid to know (if possible) that he or she is adopted and i don't want he or she to received frowning look from people why he looks different from the parents...may be i won't really care later when i become desperate but that is my concern at this moment.
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Post by ouchy on Aug 16, 2006 22:25:53 GMT -5
Babyless, if you decide to change your user name, you can do that without opening a new account. I can help you if you decide to switch.
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Post by baby bonnet on Sept 20, 2006 12:53:41 GMT -5
Sorry I've been way too busy being sick in the restroom so haven't been here in a while.
Ouchy I would love to change my username as I will start my 2nd trimester this Friday and I don't think my username fits me anymore. As always you are very helpful and I appreciate it.
Denna you shouldn't stress so much if the baby doesn't look like you or your husband because sometimes children don't look like either parent even if they are blood related. Take my sister for example - Both my parents have black hair and brown eyes. My mom is Guatemalan with dark skin and my dad is Guatemalan mixed with Chinese and has pale skin. My sister was born with light brown hair, green eyes and olive skin. She looks nothing like my parents, she has even been confused with being Irish or polish. My cousin too looks nothing like her parents. Both my aunt and uncle have dark brown eyes and very dark skin tones, but my cousin was born with very blond hair (almost white hair), a very light skin tone and green eyes. People used to think she was an albino baby. Other people used to think that my aunt was just her babysitter. This didn't affect either my sister or my cousin in any way. So don't let the child not looking like either of you stop you from adopting. Just let the child know that he/she is very special to you because you got to choose him/her. Birth parents don't get to choose their babies.
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Post by denna on Sept 21, 2006 23:27:37 GMT -5
Hi..
Ouchy i think you can help her to change for ask her what name she wants.or may be just put baby..hehe. baby is a famous name here.
thanks for the view. i appreciate it. don't worry i'll consider adoption when i have given up trying to have on my own. i'll keep trying and will not give up..yesterday i had lunch with one of my colleuge. she told me that when she wanted to have a baby at the age of 40, all the doctor she met said she is too old and can't conceived anymore, she also had few misccariage. but she is so determined that she still wanted a child. she went for massage and the lady said she has problem with her tummy. after 3 sessions she s able to conceive and had 2 child after that...i was moved with her story and will do anything i can to have my own child first.
anyway, how's your pregnancy doing?
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Post by ouchy on Sept 26, 2006 23:26:19 GMT -5
babyplus (i'm calling you that for now, until we get this name thing straightened out), I actually can't edit your profile name. I just checked my control buttons, and I don't have access to that feature. However, I will e-mail Carolyn (admin), and I'll let you know what I find out.
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