Post by pretty on May 13, 2011 14:37:33 GMT -5
ok move this I'm not sure if it should be in endo or in lifestyle. i'm at the end of my f**king rope here, Warren's idiot buddy from da UP (Upper Michigan, y'all) is here. in my house. he is a socially retarded, trust-fund hippie, with zero redeeming qualities lol (besides being W's friend and all that).
Every spring it seems like one or another of these deadbeat freaks from W's former life shows up and we have to let them stay, I look at it as something I can do for him, but i don't like it and I'm not nice about it and my behavior is deplorable to say the least. However, as I told W, I married HIM not his idiot friends and family.... (this is a losing battle, I warn you). W is not a good communicator so each year I think, oh, a guest for a week or so is fine, and then they arrive, and it's always this open-ended nightmare of insanity (to me, I'm a control freak!)
So this current 'guest' or shall I call him what he is, a big pussy, is 1. clueless (I told him on day 1 I don't eat meat, wheat, dairy, etc... he offers me cheese and crackers and milk, I sh*t you not) 2. an idiot (he lost a bet and brought a 150 pound chow/rott guard dog all the way to alaska, and he's waiting for a call to go fishing 'any day now' and the poor dog lives in the cab of this guy's truck, all day, every day, if he's not tied up under a tree)
3. socially inept/a weak and stupid man/ on my sh*t list: there are now so many things I DONT LIKE about him, it's almost impossible for me to even LOOK at him.
GOD! I'm so over this. The guy is one of those who ACTS like he'll do ANYTHING to please, but is one of those overly solicitous people who OFFERS to do stuff but then if you actually ask him to do something, he hedges and tries to change the subject. anyhow me and W are both super stressed out and can't really do anything about it. the strain on my marriage is HUGE. But I keep thinking, if this guy leaves on bad terms, it's going to bother W for the next 20 years and I will NEVER hear the end of it, so although I'm miserable and pissed, I HAVE to suck it up and just wait, indefinitely, for this idiot to pack his sh*t up and GO! (already)
I'm stuck between feeling totally justified being mad, and horribly guilty because I know W is just trying to do his bro a solid. And as his wife, I should have his back...
Any advice or calming funny anecdotes welcome. THe funny thing is that underlying all THIS stress is the ongoing stress of finances, vehicles, TTC, my endo, and on and on and on but the only thing I can think about is that poor dog sitting in the car and this idiot saying stuff like 'the dog is so stupid' and I just want to take the 44 and shoot the MF in the head. The man, NOT the dog lol!
Every spring it seems like one or another of these deadbeat freaks from W's former life shows up and we have to let them stay, I look at it as something I can do for him, but i don't like it and I'm not nice about it and my behavior is deplorable to say the least. However, as I told W, I married HIM not his idiot friends and family.... (this is a losing battle, I warn you). W is not a good communicator so each year I think, oh, a guest for a week or so is fine, and then they arrive, and it's always this open-ended nightmare of insanity (to me, I'm a control freak!)
So this current 'guest' or shall I call him what he is, a big pussy, is 1. clueless (I told him on day 1 I don't eat meat, wheat, dairy, etc... he offers me cheese and crackers and milk, I sh*t you not) 2. an idiot (he lost a bet and brought a 150 pound chow/rott guard dog all the way to alaska, and he's waiting for a call to go fishing 'any day now' and the poor dog lives in the cab of this guy's truck, all day, every day, if he's not tied up under a tree)
3. socially inept/a weak and stupid man/ on my sh*t list: there are now so many things I DONT LIKE about him, it's almost impossible for me to even LOOK at him.
GOD! I'm so over this. The guy is one of those who ACTS like he'll do ANYTHING to please, but is one of those overly solicitous people who OFFERS to do stuff but then if you actually ask him to do something, he hedges and tries to change the subject. anyhow me and W are both super stressed out and can't really do anything about it. the strain on my marriage is HUGE. But I keep thinking, if this guy leaves on bad terms, it's going to bother W for the next 20 years and I will NEVER hear the end of it, so although I'm miserable and pissed, I HAVE to suck it up and just wait, indefinitely, for this idiot to pack his sh*t up and GO! (already)
I'm stuck between feeling totally justified being mad, and horribly guilty because I know W is just trying to do his bro a solid. And as his wife, I should have his back...
Any advice or calming funny anecdotes welcome. THe funny thing is that underlying all THIS stress is the ongoing stress of finances, vehicles, TTC, my endo, and on and on and on but the only thing I can think about is that poor dog sitting in the car and this idiot saying stuff like 'the dog is so stupid' and I just want to take the 44 and shoot the MF in the head. The man, NOT the dog lol!