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omaklackey Very Active Member musician, mom, architect, gardener Posts: 1,170	Men May 4, 2011 23:01:31 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by omaklackey on May 4, 2011 23:01:31 GMT -5 aw Jenaya, That particular habit of my hubby annoys the living hell out of me. BUT then I decided he is hearing what I tell him but not processing (receiving it by osmosis) it so I decided that "technically" he did listen to me! LOL ;D
	Surgically induced menopause at 33 in 2009, stage IV Endometriosis and Interstital Cystitis.

1234 Very Active Member Posts: 1,620	Men May 6, 2011 8:24:51 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by 1234 on May 6, 2011 8:24:51 GMT -5 I tried the "you're just being hormonal" one with my husband before. He got really pissy. I thought it was sort of funny, but for me it was another one of those instances where you realize that you can't say somethings to me as a joke.

JC Global Moderator Posts: 7,685	Men May 6, 2011 18:33:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by JC on May 6, 2011 18:33:50 GMT -5 HAHA that's awesome! I'm glad it worked. I'm still waiting to get him back with that one.
	"I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do." -Edward Everett Hale

cherry Global Moderator I loves the cookies Posts: 4,751	Men May 9, 2011 19:08:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cherry on May 9, 2011 19:08:25 GMT -5 Men haven't so much bothered me today but my face did have that 'shut up, and tell your penis to stop looking at me' expression.
	>>>>>http://www.endocenter.org/endoflash_highspeed.htm<<<<< An informative and concise video to help you or others understand what endometriosis is Love is all I have to give but I have that in bunches, so lucky you! >>>>>http://www.reliefinsite.com/users<<<<< A great pain logging tool to help you and your doctor understand your pain/symptoms cycle

Karen Global Moderator Posts: 9,496	Men May 9, 2011 19:17:31 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Karen on May 9, 2011 19:17:31 GMT -5 Well put, Cherry! Hahahaha!!
	Endometriosis: The Complete Reference for Taking Charge of Your Health by Mary Lou Ballweg & The Endometriosis Association is my go-to book for information & treatment options. ******************************** Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Wexler is my go-to book for understanding the menstrual cycle, hormones, and fertility indicators.

JC Global Moderator Posts: 7,685	Men May 9, 2011 19:32:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by JC on May 9, 2011 19:32:25 GMT -5 HAHA I used to say, "Will you please tell your crotch to stop staring into my eyes?"
	"I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do." -Edward Everett Hale

cherry Global Moderator I loves the cookies Posts: 4,751	Men May 9, 2011 19:42:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cherry on May 9, 2011 19:42:10 GMT -5 Hahaha 'It's making a discomfiting amount of eye contact with me!'
	>>>>>http://www.endocenter.org/endoflash_highspeed.htm<<<<< An informative and concise video to help you or others understand what endometriosis is Love is all I have to give but I have that in bunches, so lucky you! >>>>>http://www.reliefinsite.com/users<<<<< A great pain logging tool to help you and your doctor understand your pain/symptoms cycle

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Men Apr 6, 2012 9:42:07 GMT -5

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Post by scooternooch on Apr 6, 2012 9:42:07 GMT -5

Boy do I have a rant.... So I had my endo surgery on 3-1-12. Two weeks to the day after surgery my boyfriend of 4 yrs tells me he wants to be alone. It's his house so I had to move out. Ugh! Ugh! Ugh! Men can be such idiots. So I am staying with my mom for the time being (fun fun). Don't get me wrong I love my mother and would be lost without her but LIVING with her is an adventure. I haven't had Internet since I moved out until just a few days ago (thanks AT&T). It has been a rough few weeks but I'm feeling better than ever. No endo pain, no period, summer time is coming and I'm gonna rock this new swim suit I got. If any way possible I'm gonna rock it right in front of the ex so he can see how bad he screwed up. Maybe even with a hot new man.

----Mary

1234 Very Active Member Posts: 1,620	Men Apr 6, 2012 9:51:10 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by 1234 on Apr 6, 2012 9:51:10 GMT -5 oh man, Mary, that SUCKS. Your spirit is amazing though. Damn right rock that swim suit.

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Post by JC on Apr 6, 2012 12:02:31 GMT -5

WOW.

But............. if you think about it, the fact that he was willing to do this to you as you're recovering from surgery is a real sign at how much of a jerk he is. As crappy as this situation is, I sure am glad you're not stuck with him anymore! Rock that swimsuit girl! I admire your positive attitude through all this.

"I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do." -Edward Everett Hale

Karen Global Moderator Posts: 9,496	Men Apr 6, 2012 13:41:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Karen on Apr 6, 2012 13:41:44 GMT -5 Wow. That is very low of him. However, the feeling-good-and-looking-hot you sounds like a good trade! Breakups suck, but you deserve better!
	Endometriosis: The Complete Reference for Taking Charge of Your Health by Mary Lou Ballweg & The Endometriosis Association is my go-to book for information & treatment options. ******************************** Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Wexler is my go-to book for understanding the menstrual cycle, hormones, and fertility indicators.

semicolon Very Active Member Posts: 892	Men Apr 6, 2012 21:23:45 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by semicolon on Apr 6, 2012 21:23:45 GMT -5 Ugh! I'm sorry Mary! You totally deserve better, and what bad timing. But on the up side, I'm glad you are feeling better and that you could live with your mom even though it's not ideal. Good luck with the swin suit, I hope it's a knockout!
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scooternooch
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Men Apr 7, 2012 0:34:03 GMT -5

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Post by scooternooch on Apr 7, 2012 0:34:03 GMT -5

thank u ladies. The words of encouragement from you are always just what I need. I am good and I do see what a jerk he is and how little he actually cared for me. Actions speak way louder than words. I'm not one of those go back and fourth kinda girls, when I'm done, I REALLY DONE. He did text me day before yesterday. Something about him and his son had been 4 wheeler riding all day. My response was short, not so sweet and to the point. It was this " SO, F*%$ YOU". lmao I would have loved to have seen his face when he opened that one. Anyway, thanks again ya'll.

----Mary

hellsbells Global Moderator Carpe Diem cos Tempus Fugit Posts: 5,407	Men Apr 7, 2012 7:08:51 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by hellsbells on Apr 7, 2012 7:08:51 GMT -5 Awesome lady x
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JC Global Moderator Posts: 7,685	Men Apr 7, 2012 7:30:20 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by JC on Apr 7, 2012 7:30:20 GMT -5 Why the hell is he texting you after he kicked you out? Jerk. I'm glad you're standing your ground.
	"I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do." -Edward Everett Hale