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Post by lizzylou on Aug 8, 2010 12:12:06 GMT -5
So I was looking forward to this past Friday and Saturday all week. I got to hang out with my future SIL on Friday and we went to buy my wedding dress! It was fun, we hung out, I had a great time. Her Bach. Party was all day yesterday. I was really looking forward to it. About halfway through the party I was tired and just wanted to go home and relax, but I stayed until about 12:30. During the Party we gave her a "wedding night kit" with lots of fun/silly/mildly naughty stuff. I don't think she liked it so that was kind of a let down and I don't know if she's mad at me or not. To boot, I was having some pain all day.
So today, I just feel a bit down and I dont really know why. Maybe because I was looking forward to something all week and it didn't really live up to what I hoped it would be? I feel like I could just lay on the couch all day and not talk to anyone because it's too much energy to pretend to be chipper, although I'm not mad at anyone or sad about anything in particular.
My fiance isn't exactly supportive of my mood right now and I tried to explain it's not anything in particular I'm upset about.
hmmm....this suck.
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Post by Karen on Aug 8, 2010 19:38:46 GMT -5
Moving this to a non-endo board.
I have days like that for no good reason. Take it easy, don't worry about it too much unless it doesn't pass in a few days.
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Post by Tara on Aug 9, 2010 17:19:48 GMT -5
Hang in there, those days when we feel bummed can hit like a tornado, and others don`t understand, but we do so don`t be afraid of those days, they just come. ....and about the gift, if you enjoyed putting it all together and with though and love, that`s all that matters, maybe her disappointment was more embarrisment instead of disappointment, just a thought. Hang in there, sending you a huge hug, and I hope your bummed day doesn`t last long.  |
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Post by lizzylou on Aug 9, 2010 17:22:02 GMT -5
I'm in a much better mood today thankfully. My fiance was great last night, made me an AWESOME dinner, an even better dessert, i had a glass of GREAT wine (unexpectedly good), and finished off with some kick @ss....uh...you know. haha, so I'm in a great mood today.
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Post by Tara on Aug 9, 2010 17:29:16 GMT -5
That`s great, so glad to hear it. |
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Post by Kitty on Aug 10, 2010 23:48:23 GMT -5
Sometimes we just need some loving that doesnt leave us wreaked! ^_~
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Post by JC on Aug 12, 2010 12:54:27 GMT -5
I could use some love right about now. Maybe that'd knock me out of my crap mood.
This kinda reminds me of that old song by TLC "just one of them days." remember that song?
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Post by pretty on Aug 12, 2010 15:58:42 GMT -5
Glad you're feeling better. I relate though, always really affected by how other people appear to feel (have to remind myself I can't read their mind, dont always understand WHY they react that way) I'm with Tara - we don't know if SIL was embarrassed and not upset... I know at my bachelorette party, they got me this SUPER YOUNG stripper, dressed as a cop, I swear I was revolted by him, and had to fake it pretty hard for the benefit of my crew (so they wouldn't think I didn't like my party!) it was a real chore, as I was embarrassed as all hell for some reason, although I'm not a total prude, anyways it was tough, just barely pulled it off. The worst part though (totally digressing here) was that they had this sex-toy lady (like AVon or Tupperward) who had all these toys plus scented lubes, etc, and I am super sensitive to fragrances, perfumes, etc... anyway, spent most of the Bach Party sneezing, watery eyes, and itchy with all the stinky perfumes getting passed around. I had to act like they were all really great too! still remember the runny nose and headache, with the stupid juvenile cop stripper, and just kept thinking "keep smiling, your friends did all this for you" .... Love my girlfriends! |
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Post by lizzylou on Aug 12, 2010 18:12:47 GMT -5
haha your a better woman than me Pretty When my little sister got married she wasn't 21 yet and neither were most of her friends so I had a hard time planning her party. I ended up throwing a sex toy party for her. I went balls to the walls (no pun intended) for decorations and food. i made stuff with penis pasta, lots of crazy decorations, I even found sex position toilet paper!! anyway, I invited a ton of people for the party and everyone bought a little something for her to put in this awesome treasure box thing I bought. Then after it was all said and done, we presented her with her "pleasure box". It was filled with some hilarious stuff, although I think she actually enjoyed most of it because she's um...well...lets just say she's pretty open and not very shy. |
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Post by hellsbells on Aug 13, 2010 12:21:26 GMT -5
Is this the sister that likes to think she's British? Cos being open and un-shy about sex is not a 'typically' British way to behave. Aren't we all prudes? Lol!
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Post by cherry on Aug 13, 2010 12:37:40 GMT -5
I am definitely feeling like this today. Just not really in the mood, though I have a lot to be thankful for I know. Doesn't help that a million little things went wrong in typical Friday the 13th fashion and I saw pics that I shoulda just ignored and I woke up late and have writers block. Just having a meh day. Early night tonight methinks.
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