Post by painpainpain on May 11, 2007 14:51:50 GMT -5
Alright...Mother's Day is just around the corner, which Happy Mother's Day to all, now my mother in law has invited us for lunch after church which is fine. My girls go to church with her every Sunday, it's something they do with their Grandma, I do not go...long story on that. I don't have a problem letting the kids go if they enjoy it. Anyways I'm getting off topic here....my husband has to work on Sunday, he says to me are you going to see the performance at the church and then going to mom's for lunch? I said yes i'm going to the church but i'm not sure if i will be going to your mom's or not....depends on how i feel. He says well i guess if you are that sick we will not be going to see your mom on the long weekend. Excuse me it's mothers day and it's your mother you find time to see her...just because I go and see her doesn't make up for the fact that you weren't there-this lady thinks, here we go again with the you're fine suck it up attitude, there is nothing wrong with me but mental issues and that i would be better off in a mental institute than at a docs office. And why would i want to go and spend a whole afternoon with his family seeing as they all feel this way. I see his point as far as going to my mother's, since she is an hour away, but i will put up with the pain to go and see her. (not telling him that) At least when I see my mom there is no question that there is something wrong...we're just not sure what it is exactly. And it's my mom. I'm having trouble driving long distances right now because of the pain in my RLQ so I kinda need the hubby to drive me there. Then with the kids in the back fighting all the way there and well you know.....but is it unreasonable for me to sit this family due out?? I mean I have to go to church and hopefully don't have any loosey goosey moments there let alone having lunch somewhere other than home (especially with the diarrhea and vomitting) and somewhere where I don't feel understood??
I don't know what to do...hard spot I guess. Hubby really doesn't understand either. I just wish he did. They are so nice to him to eh...it's like I'm not even in the room sometimes. No not even sometimes all the time. If it weren't for the kids I may never be invited there to begin with....strange. I am a nice person...really I am! lol
I have just been so tired and sore lately with the aches and pains, diarrhea and vomitting. My fingers are hurting right now just typing this post...I actually try not to post long posts cause my fingers start swelling and get sore. I'm off topic again! Sorry.
Anyways just needed to let that out....
I don't know what to do...hard spot I guess. Hubby really doesn't understand either. I just wish he did. They are so nice to him to eh...it's like I'm not even in the room sometimes. No not even sometimes all the time. If it weren't for the kids I may never be invited there to begin with....strange. I am a nice person...really I am! lol
I have just been so tired and sore lately with the aches and pains, diarrhea and vomitting. My fingers are hurting right now just typing this post...I actually try not to post long posts cause my fingers start swelling and get sore. I'm off topic again! Sorry.
Anyways just needed to let that out....