Lori
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Post by Lori on Apr 1, 2006 9:07:34 GMT -5
Hello,
My name is Lori, and I'm 27 years old, and I've been married almost 9 years, and have no children. I was diagosed with endo in December of 2001, and I've had three laps since 2001, and six months of lupron. In march of 2004 I was diagnosed with breast cancer, and had a mastectomy, and imediate reconstruction.
Now my options for endo are very limited since the cancer I had feeds on my estrogen, and progesterone, and I can't take any hormone therapy to control it. My oncologist has recommened long term lupron with add back therapy, or a oopherectomy, and hysterectomy. I'm really struggling with this decision since my gyno still feels I could get pregnant if I really wanted to, but I'm tired of being in pain, and being rid of all my hormones would be a lot better for me as far as cancer goes.
Nice to meet all you girls, I hope I get to know you!
Lori
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Post by erzulie on Apr 1, 2006 15:30:00 GMT -5
Hi Lori, welcome to the site! I'm sorry you've been through so much. I have read that people with endometriosis have a higher risk of cancer, partly because our immune cells that are supposed to gobble up misplaced tissue aren't working right and partly because we seem to be more chemically sensitive than most people. Basically all the same toxins that can cause cancer also cause endometriosis, so I'm sure you would benefit by doing the reasearch there so you know what to avoid for both of your health problems. As for the hysterectomy decision--I know it's a tough choice, but please remember that nothing you do can take away your ability to have children. There are millions of children all around the world in need of a home, so if you decide a hysterectomy is the best thing for your health, you can still become a mother. Don't ever let anyone tell you that's not as good as getting pregnant!
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Post by Lori on Apr 1, 2006 17:56:22 GMT -5
Thank you for the welcome! Its so sweet of you to remind me that I don't have to give birth to be a mother, I often forget that.
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Post by lynette on Apr 1, 2006 20:39:25 GMT -5
Welcome to the board. You have really gone through alot at such a young age. I would not recommend the Lupron. I, too, am 27 and have endo. In January I had a total hysterectomy and ovary removal. I feel better than I have in years. I'm sure you are tire of surgery. Like Erzulie said, there are so many children out there who need a familiy. I wish you the best of luck. Lynette
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Lori
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Post by Lori on Apr 1, 2006 20:43:06 GMT -5
Thanks Lynette, I'm glad to hear you are doing well after your hysterectomy! Thanks for the welcome! Lori
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Post by lauren on Apr 2, 2006 0:33:12 GMT -5
Welcome Lori, i'm sorry to hear that you have been through so much! you must be a very brave woman...you need to make a decision that is right for you...dont let anyone pressure you including the doctors...you are the only one who truly knows your body...and you are definitely in the right place for all the support you need. (obviously outside of direct family)! will be praying for you.
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Lori
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Post by Lori on Apr 2, 2006 17:18:25 GMT -5
Hi Lauren,
Thank you for the welcome! Lori
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Post by Hillary on Jul 31, 2006 21:54:38 GMT -5
Happy Birthday Lori! ;D
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Post by masagnu on Aug 1, 2006 11:35:09 GMT -5
Lori I'm sorry you have been through so much. Don't do what the drs wants you to do you do what is right for lori. I had to have a hyster at the age of 29 to. It is not a easy choice to make. I have no kids and it was very hard to say yes to the hyster. You have to go with what is in your heart and go with it. I know when you are in all that pain you just want out. And taking the out you will lose the chance of having your own kids. Good Luck with your choice and I'm hear if you need anyone to talk to.
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Post by ouchy on Aug 1, 2006 11:53:58 GMT -5
There is a chance Lori may not respond--she hasn't posted since Apr 2, 2006.
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