Post by Nari on Nov 12, 2007 22:34:54 GMT -5
Okay my weekend started a lil something like this.
Friday I was in some serious pain. My husband was going to pick the kids up from school, so I took a pain killer that I cant drive when I have taken. I get a phone call from the high school. It is about my son. He has been doing some in appropriate stuff on the net at school... (yes.. let your mind hit the gutter)
So my husband goes and picks him up from the principles office and has the meeting. Our son has been in to so much bad stuff on the net. Dangerous stuff too.
He comes home, we sit and talk.
Saturday I am still quite upset and all. I remind him that he knows better.
Sunday I send him to the store. He comes back and is acting strange. I wind up getting in to a physical struggle with him because he is hiding something in his pocket. I call my husband. He picks him up off the floor, which is where my panicked son planted himself to make sure I dont get the contents of his pocket. I get in to his pocket and find a new pack of cigarettes and lighter. My son is 14. Just turned 14, and we dont smoke.
We talk to him and all that stuff we parents are supposed to do. Then we go back to talking about the Porn. Yes we had problems with him over the summer while he was at his bio fathers, and then again when he came home. We talked about it and all. He keeps doing it. Finding ways around the parental blocks and crap. EVEN had the crap downloaded on to his PSP and put it on the computer!!! Anway, We took all computer priveldges at home, and all electronics and all entertainment, ect. Then he started with masterbation and well we all know that is a normal thing for teenage boys. But he took it to a different level. He started doing other things with it. Perverted unthought of, sick and violating things with it all...stuff I wouldnt dare say out in chat.
So on top of all I have said here... add the fact that the principle and administration have now said that my son is showing signs of predator-like behavior (which we see and have said and thought too).
And guess what... now he has decided to buck up and do the whole "your not my father crap" and my husband is devistated. My son is the one who asked a million years ago if he could call him Dad.
My son is walking around the house like NOTHING EVER HAPPENED!!!
I am so hurt, so sick, depressed, you name it, I am going through it. I cried all weekend.
Then to top it all off we got the most recent court papers from the demon herself. Bit*h
Anyway, If I am not on for a while.... please understand I am going through a whole world shaking, life changing events right now.
I luv you all though.
Friday I was in some serious pain. My husband was going to pick the kids up from school, so I took a pain killer that I cant drive when I have taken. I get a phone call from the high school. It is about my son. He has been doing some in appropriate stuff on the net at school... (yes.. let your mind hit the gutter)
So my husband goes and picks him up from the principles office and has the meeting. Our son has been in to so much bad stuff on the net. Dangerous stuff too.
He comes home, we sit and talk.
Saturday I am still quite upset and all. I remind him that he knows better.
Sunday I send him to the store. He comes back and is acting strange. I wind up getting in to a physical struggle with him because he is hiding something in his pocket. I call my husband. He picks him up off the floor, which is where my panicked son planted himself to make sure I dont get the contents of his pocket. I get in to his pocket and find a new pack of cigarettes and lighter. My son is 14. Just turned 14, and we dont smoke.
We talk to him and all that stuff we parents are supposed to do. Then we go back to talking about the Porn. Yes we had problems with him over the summer while he was at his bio fathers, and then again when he came home. We talked about it and all. He keeps doing it. Finding ways around the parental blocks and crap. EVEN had the crap downloaded on to his PSP and put it on the computer!!! Anway, We took all computer priveldges at home, and all electronics and all entertainment, ect. Then he started with masterbation and well we all know that is a normal thing for teenage boys. But he took it to a different level. He started doing other things with it. Perverted unthought of, sick and violating things with it all...stuff I wouldnt dare say out in chat.
So on top of all I have said here... add the fact that the principle and administration have now said that my son is showing signs of predator-like behavior (which we see and have said and thought too).
And guess what... now he has decided to buck up and do the whole "your not my father crap" and my husband is devistated. My son is the one who asked a million years ago if he could call him Dad.
My son is walking around the house like NOTHING EVER HAPPENED!!!
I am so hurt, so sick, depressed, you name it, I am going through it. I cried all weekend.
Then to top it all off we got the most recent court papers from the demon herself. Bit*h
Anyway, If I am not on for a while.... please understand I am going through a whole world shaking, life changing events right now.
I luv you all though.