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Post by cherry on Dec 23, 2010 14:34:55 GMT -5
It's winter horn, you think they're not interested but they wait to winter til pounce! I'm excited to see where these 3 stories go! Mr Sad seems to like you lots, now when he'll come out of his heartbreak coma is another thing, would be great if he wasn't a colleague...
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Post by hellsbells on Dec 24, 2010 6:43:44 GMT -5
I got laaaaiiiiid!!!!
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Post by cherry on Dec 24, 2010 10:37:16 GMT -5
Spill! Should this go in flirtathon or horny rant do we think...
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Post by cherry on Dec 31, 2010 6:55:49 GMT -5
Well with respect to the new job I've been offered I'll say 'never say never' but generally speaking I'm off men. There's not one man in my life who I think could make me happy in anything but a superficial sense and I'm fine with that. I have to decide what I want and get it, I'd very much like to be the girl to busy to date, I've spent much of my sexually mature life on some manboy's arm, and it's not been good for me as a person. I have a lot of work to do on myself as I've realised I'm too pliable and literally change and become unhappy with myself around someone I like, which is daft to say the least, weird (I know it's to do with my childhood problems but I'm trying to focus away from the past and solve problems in the here and now) and something I need to get to the bottom of. My self-esteem has always sucked but this is a new low (though I did it in my long-term relationship, hence it became poisonous and by no means do I blame all our wrongs on him, it was me too) so I'm going to continue with my new year plans minus the penis. I love penis and it's attached male but it stresses me and I fall over myself to be someone else. Stoopid, but I'm impressed that I noticed this, I've been oblivious to everything lately so noticing something this important is great. I'm waiting for an interview at Hollister which in my city is chock full of pretty boys. I'm a sucker for pretty faces my mouth falls open, guys or gals. Anyone who's been to an A&F store knows they're dark and full of palm plants, more staff than customers some days and stinks of their signature scents which I'm certain they pump into their AC, aka a death-trap. I think it'd be a good thing for me on a number of levels aaaand there's plenty of completely harmless no strings flirting to do which would make me happy for now. I'll let you know! Any news for you girls?
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Post by Karen on Dec 31, 2010 9:08:41 GMT -5
Glad you recognize that you need some time off! I hope you get things sorted, hun, as some man will be super lucky to have you once you're comfortable with the idea!! As for me, Mr. Sad has been texting me a bit while we've been off work. But, in an attempt to distract myself from him, I met someone else. He's my date tonight for NYE so I'm guaranteed a kiss at midnight, but I'm forcing myself not to drink much tonight so I don't get out of hand with him... (And so I don't feel like complete ass tomorrow.) It's taken me a long time to get to this point, but I think I'm quite ready for something more than just dating. Not just with any 'ol guy, of course, but I'm much more ready to settle down these days than just date around like I'm so used to. My attitude has shifted, never thought that would happen!
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Post by cherry on Dec 31, 2010 12:09:59 GMT -5
Thanks, I'm weirdly relieved so that goes to show I'm really doing the best thing for me! I went to see a pharmacist on my way back from the gym, just to ask if I should be waiting on any effects or can stop taking my meds seeing as they're causing me trouble... he was kinda beautiful. Not kinda, but really! The last thing I wanted to do wasd to talk him about was poo and trapped wind, as was evident by my red cheeks! He was really nice about it though. Karen it's so good to hear you're at that place where you're ready for someone to really honestly sweep you off your feet! Maybe this will be the year, you certainly have a couple of ready candidates! Or maybe it will be a mystery man who suddenly pops up!
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Post by Karen on Jan 1, 2011 12:41:10 GMT -5
Ah, yes, relief is a sign that you're doing the right thing at the moment! Just think, Cherry, once you're comfy with where you're at, someone incredibly awesome is going to enter into your life just then!
Had an amazing NYE with new guy. He fit right in with my group of friends and we had a great time. He's so stinking attractive, kind, sweet, funny, affectionate. It was so fun to flirt all night! We were so cozy together that the hostess of the party was shocked when I told her it was only our second date.
Swoon!
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Post by hellsbells on Jan 1, 2011 13:22:43 GMT -5
I'm jealous.
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Post by cherry on Jan 13, 2011 18:48:46 GMT -5
Any updates gals? I saw gym boy yesterday for the first time in ages. Talking to a lady friend. So naturally I breezed past and pretended not to see him. I swear if he gives me any more of those broody looks you're going to have to put me out with a fire extinguisher. My sister watched the whole thing thing and found it all very amusing. I can't lie, I said I'm not interested in guys but he has made a bulb go on in my head. I love his wee Tin Tin quiff.
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Post by Karen on Jan 13, 2011 20:44:28 GMT -5
Ooh, I know it's not the last we'll hear of gym boy.
I had a good short run with a new fella but he's not from around here and will be heading back home this weekend. I relocated desks at work so now I'm not near Mr. Sad, and he's been flirting a lot less since I think he spotted an email about Mr. Out of Town. I'm nearing a swoon-fest slump...
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Post by cherry on Jan 14, 2011 6:03:17 GMT -5
Ugh Mr Sad, I feel sorry for him but I'm impatient for him to mend his broken heart so that he's not likely to start crying during sex. That would be my worst nightmare! I think that given he told you that he wouldn't be ready for a long time, he has to expect you to move on. Or at least be more gracious about it when he realises you are I have this heart trembling chemistry with Pretty Lips but nothing else fits, it would be a disaster, staying away from him on the next work night out. Sister 'can't you and your gym boyfriend smile at each other, you look like you're going to have a fight' I've had a slump, probably because I've got my nose in the air. When I decide I'm not interested I almost go blind to them it's this weird skill I have. Also my ex told a friend's boyfriend 'I don't want you to tell me about her, but tell her EVERYTHING I've been up to' Oh dear, to think I wanted to marry this stupid boy? He has severely overestimated my powers of giving a sh*t. Idiot.
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Post by Karen on Jan 14, 2011 7:29:24 GMT -5
Ha ha, I love your sis. Sounds like you need to smile at the guy if you ever want a chance at talking!!
And Mark's an ass. Plain and simple.
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Post by cherry on Jan 14, 2011 10:37:08 GMT -5
Seriously hard to, I don't glower but he does, it knocks me off-balance. Really! Frowning freaks me out. Think I'll have take control in my own little way to get past the playground tactics. Ask if I can use something that he's not using?
Ex is definitely an ass. My friend and I laughed, cos she knows from my reaction to news that he might have a girlfriend. I said I was happy for him, but happier for myself!
I take it Mr Not Taking The Hint has just totally dropped off the map? Kinda disappointing that he can't be unbusy just to have a bit of fun, you seem pretty undemanding. He's missing out on some Karen!
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Post by Karen on Jan 14, 2011 13:04:01 GMT -5
Yup, Mr. busy is out of the picture, has been for a while. He's younger (I call younger men 'pounders', and he was no exception but could have been trained) so no real loss. And, yes, I'm VERY undemanding, so he's missing out on what could have been a very nice arrangement and tutoring session. His loss.
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Post by cherry on Jan 14, 2011 19:25:40 GMT -5
Haha pounders, how I miss that! I could really appreciate the enthusiasm and all, but I don't think my body could take it... much as I miss sex! Mr Busy makes me sigh. They really don't see when it's a steak offered to em on a plate do they? And then you often see them run panting after a hamburger. Maybe you don't want someone that dumb/lazy/jack-rabbit action.
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