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Post by cherry on Nov 15, 2010 20:35:42 GMT -5
I am enjoying the flirting I can do as a single gal. I just had a little chat to a guy I have been swooning over since I was 14 cos he's seeing someone in concert and we both like her but I'm too shy to say I wanna go (he's the only other person I know who likes MIA) and he is too shy to ask me outright/doesn't want me to go at all. I giggled my socks off - same weirdass sense of humour as me I was laughing for an hour at our conversation. I wonder if he fancies me as well? Well he asked me if I'd be going out with a black guy next because my last boyfriend was white. Strange question, no? Anyways has anyone had any flirts and stuff? I know a few of you ladies are married and committed and whatnot but it's all innocent and I love a bit of intrigue
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Post by chicagogal2 on Nov 15, 2010 20:54:04 GMT -5
Sounds like you both fancy each other! Did he call you or did you call him? I'd call him back and say hey, I really want to go and if you're not doing anything do you wanna go together and hang out? Then when you're there laugh and touch his arm alot, subtle contact is key and see how he reacts, if he does the same you know he's digging you. I still can't believe with your beauty and amazing sense of humor that you are single! Hey - I recently heard some great advice - it goes a little like this " go tiger on his ass!!!! " LOL!!!!!
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Post by Karen on Nov 15, 2010 21:16:29 GMT -5
Flirting is fuuuuuuuun!
I say you make your move, Cherry! No need to ask him outright just yet, can ask about ticket prices, if he has an extra ticket, etc. Or an 'I'm free that night, would love to join you' budge-your-way-in-there would work, too!!
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Post by cherry on Nov 16, 2010 9:06:16 GMT -5
It was on facebook messenger, the most romantic medium of all time! He'd put up a status asking if anyone wanted a spare ticket and I'd said 'oh when is it and are they still selling tickets' cos I thought of asking my friend to go. Most of my friends hate MIA and find her torturous to listen to though. And then I sent him a stoopid message 'I wasn't asking you out btw, don't worry' (paranoid by the fact that I was hoping he would, haha) so he popped up on fb chat last night and said 'I knew you weren't asking me out' so I lied and said 'oh my friend said it sounded like I was' so now I'm a really bad liar as well. I do stuff and immediately go 'wtf am I doing' But we had a good little hour of banter after in which he complained he was gonna have to give up on going because no one else liked her. So now you know why I'm single haha! I'm awkward as hell. I just read over the last half of our coversation and it's still making me laugh! We sooo click. He's a liberal dreamer and I'm just a dope, perfect match Oh but that question about black guys was so weird? I'm not arsed about race at all it just so happens that my boyfriends have all been white. I'm quite digging gingers atm. Do you think he asked as an awkward way of trying to work out whether I like him? That was definitely a 'whaaat?!' moment I've realised I'm flirting with a guy in work. We keep catching each other's eye it's getting funny now. But he's like, 21 aka a dumbass still. We have our Christmas night out in 2 weeks! I'm such a flirt-sl*t *had to edit cos of that damn bad language filter haha, maybe I should stop swearing!*
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Post by Karen on Nov 16, 2010 10:21:23 GMT -5
Oh, crap, you've shot yourself in the flirting foot! But you can recover you know... You could follow with a 'my friends aren't able to go, so NOW can I ask you out?' and bat your eyes on whichever way is possible over the internet! Do it, Cherry, do it!!! Sounds like he's putting the feelers out there, all you need to do is bite!
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Post by cherry on Nov 16, 2010 11:15:47 GMT -5
Bite his feelers? Karen what kind of crazy sex games are you into?! Hahaha! I'm so dumb, I know. I dunno how I manage to do it? I will have to see if he's online later so I can ask him. He has brown hair with a tinge of ginger so I think it's fate. At the very least we can be gig buddies with a common interest in sarcasm and construction.
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Post by cherry on Nov 16, 2010 11:17:53 GMT -5
Oh but if anyone has any current flirts I really wanna hear about it! This cannot be about my lack of grace/common sense.
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Post by pretty on Nov 16, 2010 17:13:33 GMT -5
There is a guy at work super super cute, very warm and caring and supportive lol, not my type at all.. anyhow this weekend it was so funny, he met my husband and now I think he doesn't like me anymore since now he sees what I DO like. he was my flirt monkey but I think he's gone off me now oh well
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Post by cherry on Nov 16, 2010 17:38:48 GMT -5
I'll be honest, I've had a soft spot for someone and then gone off them when I met their other half, just because it brought reality crashing down. Even though I was in a relationship and had no intention of stepping out... I didn't like them ruining the fantasy hahaha!
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Post by sunshine78 on Nov 16, 2010 19:53:49 GMT -5
You should just say, "Hey, guy - why don't we go together, since we're the only ones we know who like MIA? And then, later, we can make out, after you buy me about 4 shots of Grey Goose."
See, the second thing is the funny break-the-ice tactic I use, when I don't think I have a shot in hell. That way, if I get shot down, it's no big deal.
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Post by Karen on Nov 16, 2010 20:35:22 GMT -5
Well, Cherry, you've seen my horny rant - these days I'll sink my teeth into just about anything! I don't really have many people to really flirt with, though there are a few guys at work that do the trick in a harmless kind of way. One of them in particular I'd be all over if we didn't work together. So nice, funny, thoughtful. He's the kind of guy that notices if I'm wearing taller heels at work or red pants.
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Post by sunshine78 on Nov 16, 2010 21:00:11 GMT -5
RED PANTS.
I think that is brilliant.
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Post by Tamela on Nov 16, 2010 21:41:10 GMT -5
Cherry -- go tiger on his ass!!!!! Yaaaaaaa!!!!!
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Post by cherry on Nov 16, 2010 21:46:14 GMT -5
Red pants? Underpants? That made me laugh. Work flirtations are fun but with the christmas parties and drinks, we're on dangerous ground! I don't know how I am so lacking guts about this, I genuinely like lotsa things about him. I need to light a fire under my bum.
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Post by Karen on Nov 16, 2010 22:27:12 GMT -5
Sorry, red trousers! Is that the right word for you?!?!? Ha ha, yes, red panties would certainly send a message to my coworkers if they saw them!!!!
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