nic
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Post by nic on Apr 24, 2007 5:32:23 GMT -5
Hi Chloe,
I'm very sorry to hear about all of your troubles at the moment. I will wish for some good luck to go your way. Sometimes the only option you have is to let it out and have a really good cry. Then to pick yourself back up again and keep going. We don't have to be strong every second of everyday and there is nothing wrong with losing it every once and awhile. Some bad things that happen to us are better than the good. It develops character and brings out qualities in us that you never knew you had, or could endure. I know, it still suxs at the end of the day...but chin up babe, things will get better!!!
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Post by chloelouise on Apr 30, 2007 15:16:04 GMT -5
Thank you so much for all the support guys. Tony got made redundant AGAIN n friday but Im really trying to keep it together. 'There is nothing to worry about but lots to think about' Isnt that a great saying!!
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Post by cherry on Apr 30, 2007 15:39:29 GMT -5
That is a good saying, well done for keeping your chin up xx
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Post by scarlett on Apr 30, 2007 15:54:40 GMT -5
Hi, So sorry to hear about your troubles. don't feel bad about venting here though, that's a part of what this site it here for!! I have felt similar at times recently due to the incredibly hard year my husband and I have since we got married last May (abandoned by virtually all of his family and part of mine due to being different religions, then of couse the endo and infertility diagnosis.). Anyhow, i know what it's like to feel like you are getting a very raw deal. It seems like life is so unfair. I try to think positive each day though, even though that can be incredibly tough. I don't know about making your own luck, but I do think by thinking in a positive way you can create a postiive environment where good things are maybe more likely to happen than bad. I also try to stay positive by laughing with my husband even at the bad stuff. A good cry is also good!! It's also very true what Aussiebird says about how other people often have tough but hidden things going on for them. I really believe that you get the toughest stuff you can deal with in life and it makes you a stronger, better person when you come through the other side - plus, boy do you ever appreciate the good stuff!! But sometimes I do wish i wasn't so able to cope because then maybe I'd not get as much tough stuff to deal with!!! I hope things get better for you and in the meantime we are all here to support you. XOXO
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Post by AussieBird on May 3, 2007 10:37:20 GMT -5
But sometimes I do wish i wasn't so able to cope because then maybe I'd not get as much tough stuff to deal with!!! Gorgeous
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