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Post by shona on Jun 14, 2007 17:06:09 GMT -5
i dont know how much more i can take,not just with the endo but with life its self,my daughters pregnanat,she doesnt get on with my partner of 10years,she needs my support the now but because they dont get on the atmospheres awful,they dont argue but dont speak,or she,l try and he just blanks her,he doesnt want her to still live with us when babys born cos he doesnt want her boyfriend being here,he wont even "allow"him to stay the odd night without an argument starting between me him and my daughter,things are tense wi me and her cos of all the stress,im just so fed up with it all,inbetween time i have to try and keep things together and cope with my endo,i feel like just packing a bag for me and my son and just sodding of,infact i think its going to split me and my partner up,i dont want it to,but i cant take much more.im hurting to much all the time.
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Post by ouchy on Jun 14, 2007 17:32:16 GMT -5
yikes. sorry, shona. sounds like you're going through a lot!
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Post by shona on Jun 14, 2007 17:37:55 GMT -5
i just feel like piggy in the middle,torn between the people i love most and they hate each other.
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Post by ouchy on Jun 14, 2007 17:58:01 GMT -5
could you call a family meeting and have everyone hash it out? if you guys dont' discuss what's really the issue, then it will likely snowball.
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Post by shona on Jun 15, 2007 2:52:40 GMT -5
i somehow think that would end in tears,literally,cos theres so much tension.
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Post by ouchy on Jun 15, 2007 8:48:50 GMT -5
^Tears are a release of stress. Isn't it better to have tears and everyone on the same page than to let the tension just keep building?
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Post by cass on Jun 17, 2007 2:00:00 GMT -5
Hey Shona Sorry to hear about your predicament. Has anything happenned for them to behave this way towards weach other? I know i acted the same way towards noth my parents new partners and refused to speak to them but that was beacasue we had disagreements. Living out of home enabled me to develop better bonds with both my parents
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Post by shona on Jun 17, 2007 6:10:56 GMT -5
theyve never seen eye to eye,i think they are both too alike,we,re getting there,my daughters very stubborn and headstrong,she sometimes doesnt listen to me,but then if someone tells her the same thing she,l agree wi them.all this worry wi her health doesnt help.
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Post by gemini on Jun 24, 2007 6:29:02 GMT -5
So sorry to hear about your problems shona I think it is time for you to call a family meeting. Your boyfriend knows wot ur going through and i think he is being selfish by putting you in a situation where u are torn b/w 2 people u love. First of all have a sit down with ur daughter explain everything to her..how ur feeling and how ENDO is effecting your life..then speak to ur bf ...then try getting them to sit together and discuss what the problem is. Your daughter needs her mother at the moment especially with her hormones all over the place, so plz give her the attention and care she deserves. I hope everything works out for you.. if not then your right in saying..pack your bags and go away for a few days. GIVE urself a break from all the tension and come back with a fresh mind. When ur strong they'll see how you feel about it all and may be that will like a kick up their butt. IF your weak abt this..it'll carry on. Shona ur the one that needs to take control of the situation. Thinking of you **hugz**
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Post by mel26 on Jul 8, 2007 4:47:14 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that ur going through so much stress... If you know how upsetting a discussion would be, then there must be a great deal of pain, which can't be denied forever... Perhaps having the baby around will create a new opportunity for change. Children will do that to people... Hope u get things sorted out.
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Post by Nari on Sept 23, 2007 22:10:27 GMT -5
i'm sorry !! Huggz
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Post by ouchy on Sept 23, 2007 22:21:13 GMT -5
Where is shona? She hasnt' been here for months. Anyone keep up w/ her via e-mail?
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