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Post by shaho on Aug 18, 2007 22:56:42 GMT -5
hi everybody. im new here and seeking for support and advice to get pregnant. trying for more than one year to get pregnant after misscarriage at 5 months and ten days.The baby lived for 30 minutes. Read about ovulex and fertilitAid for women(herbs) and i dont know which one is better...As im in Malaysia to get those medicine is really hard and some co dont ship those here... As skeptical i am...i need somebody to advice....tq
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Post by ouchy on Aug 18, 2007 23:03:03 GMT -5
Sorry about your miscarriage. That must be very painful emotionally. I can recommend buying the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. You will probably have to order it online, but it is well worth it! You will learn SO much about your fertility. Welcome again. BTW, do you have endometriosis?
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Post by shaho on Aug 19, 2007 10:10:44 GMT -5
Hi Ouchy... Thanx for replying...ive alredy check that book at ebay... After the misscarriage i did have very bad cramp at the left side but went for the check-up nothing.And since then (one year ++) i didnt go for check up even the dr said the probility is very high to have endo. But ouchy as I read through internet this few months... i realise i have dozen of endo simptom...
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Post by ouchy on Aug 19, 2007 10:59:23 GMT -5
Are you going to have a laparoscopy? Your fertility is supposed to be increased for a window of like 6-12 months. Maybe they can find your problem?
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Post by ouchy on Aug 19, 2007 10:59:38 GMT -5
Also, are your periods regular?
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Post by denna on Aug 21, 2007 0:25:42 GMT -5
hi shaho,
your nick name sound like japanese and u said you are in malaysia? i'm a malaysian too.
wow..mc at 5 months? what happened? are you stressed? this is scary, i know it can happen but rare rite?..you make me a bit worry as i have just passed my 1st trimester and now i'm feeling much better as normally mc will happened during the 1st trimester.
anyway, it's good to check if you have endo but the good thing is you have been pregnant so i guess, it's not hard to get pregnant again even after mc.i know 1 lady, she mc during her 5th weeks and was pregnant the month after.
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Post by shaho on Aug 21, 2007 1:32:42 GMT -5
hi... Ouchy...Last time my cycle exactly 29 days...but after the mc everything turns up side down mite be for the clomid that i took and mite be coz of fat..yeah im fat and very2 fat... ..lap..? yeah but i thing i should go for medication 1st and see how it goes..im 28 and ppl said im still young but after the mc im so sceptical with life... Denna...im so relief when i know that ur malaysian...at least there somebody to share and ask for opinion...shah is my name and o is my hubby's sir name.. Mc at 5 mths..yeah it hard but like u said...it is rare.. so dont thing bout it..ull be ok...dont worry everything will be fine..lets pray hard...anyway tq guys at least i feel like somebody care... ;D
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Post by denna on Aug 21, 2007 20:36:24 GMT -5
hi
i think it's good if you introduce yourself at the intro thread for the rest of members to know you better..but anyway,welcome to the most interesting and happening forum here ;D
well, i agree, 28 is still ok, i know many who are in their 30 and late 30 who are still busy ttc.well,have you tried massage? did you go through a D& C for you mc? i'm not sure if D& C is performed for late mc but if you did, have the doctor check if your uterus/ovaries are ok after the procudure? if D&C was not done properly there is a problem to conceive..
other than that, have you had all the hormon check?
well, after doing all those test, progesterone,hsg and all,massage may be you can try herbs or IUI..well, i'm just telling you what i have done to get pregnant..and while doing done, try not to be too stressed ya...take it easy, go for a holiday with your hubby..it will sure happen to you again.
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Post by shahza on Aug 24, 2007 3:59:09 GMT -5
denna...
last mc nop...delivered normal. Done a lot of massage but no result. I thinking to used herbs product then proceed with lap. But i give it until end of this year then i have to to the specialist.
Yeah..tried not to be stress but when everybody start asking when can they throw a baby shower, i just feel bad.
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