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Post by Karen on Nov 25, 2010 21:22:05 GMT -5
Hahahahah, that's AWESOME!!
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Post by cherry on Nov 26, 2010 9:21:22 GMT -5
Ahahaha taking tips from a 6 year old, I could do with getting back the bravery I had as a 6 year old making eyes at Steven and throwing a picture at him that I'd drawn of him and me inside a love heart... he thought I was just throwing things and told the teacher on me (Mrs Edwards who always seemed to be pregnant) she opened it and smiled and said nothing but gave me a wink. Ah the simplicity of childhood! This poor gym guy has been built up in my head to the point that I've had 2 very romantic dreams about him. One was sorta based in the French wh0re fantasy that Pretty spun out, it was set in Paris and had balconies and me wearing strings of pearls staring longingly at him on his balcony across the street? Honestly it was like some cheesy Gossip Girl set up I even had a Heart tune playing in my head. My crazy imagination
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Post by hellsbells on Nov 26, 2010 10:29:06 GMT -5
Mine's been running riot today. Got the end of period horn, and the guy from work I've mentioned is having his leaving do tonight. He came round saying goodbyes today, and when he came to me he asked if I was going out tonight so he knew when he'd have the chance to say goodbye, and he kinda put his hand firmly on my shoulder and I have to say I surge of something flooded through me. I'm going to be such a flirt tonight.
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Post by cherry on Nov 26, 2010 10:51:13 GMT -5
He is definitely leaving you the crumb trail there isn't he!
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Post by Karen on Nov 26, 2010 11:56:38 GMT -5
Ooh have fun at the going away!! My dad is a big flirt, if anyone is surprised... We went for breakfast this morning and he told the (obviously older) waitress that if she were available, he'd ask her out but he usually doesn't dat women in their 30s... Gave her a good boost & they both had a good laugh.
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Post by hellsbells on Nov 27, 2010 7:33:40 GMT -5
He kept laying a hand on my arm/shoulder all bloody night. But at the end of the day, he's a decent, happily married man and it was never on the cards. He's a lovely guy. We did have a conversation at one point last night and I ended up telling him I hadn't had a decent shag since January and he was just telling me to go for it. He said something like 'Obviously I can't oblige you...' and I forget the rest. Naturally I said I wasn't asking him too. Wonder if that means he's thought about it though? Aww I'm gonna miss him. I'll see him from time to time as no doubt he'll come along on other nights out. **sigh**
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Post by cherry on Nov 27, 2010 18:36:42 GMT -5
I interpret arm touching as 'your boobs look nice' it's a shame your big flirt is gone though I have a friend in work who seems to be flirting. No in fact 2 of them, one of them kept looking at me for ages and the other was saying really nice stuff about me that is not his normal character. I think I looked puzzled to say the least I didn't know what was going on at first. Sorry if I sound stuck up and ungrateful but these are my mates they can just lay off it. I bet if there wasn't a load of Christmas drinking coming up, they wouldn't bother. They literally didn't bother till this week. I just want my gym boy. Who could be gay or have a girlfriend for all I know. And I think my work bestie is encouraging one of them, I'll kill her!
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Post by Karen on Nov 27, 2010 18:53:26 GMT -5
Ooh, it's one thing to flirt at work to make nice and be funny, but another when someone has genuine feelings or is being encouraged. How dare she! But on the flipside, it's flattering to know you have options, even if you'd never consider them!
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Post by cherry on Nov 27, 2010 19:28:48 GMT -5
Haha 'thanks, but no.' I will contact her tomorrow, she was dropping terrible hints in work, she's nearly as bad as me for being very not subtle. If she's not, then she has an uncanny knack for conversation and a strange twitch. I just like my friends to be my friends. Getting someone doesn't mean you have to swap bodily fluids eh, haha.
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Post by hellsbells on Nov 28, 2010 4:59:05 GMT -5
You could have a point cherry...I did have a low cut dress on. I had a few flirty conversations with other guys too, one about the state of my currently overgrown bush! I also got told I was beautiful, and another young guy who's 30 reckoned I was only about 35! So in some ways it was an ego boosting night.
I'd kill someone who encouraged someone I didn't fancy, tell her to knock it off!
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Post by Karen on Nov 28, 2010 8:48:21 GMT -5
Ah, gotta love those ego boosting nights!!!!! And gotta love the comfort around your coworkers! I had that at my old place but haven't had enough drinks with the guys at my current place... yet!
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Post by cherry on Dec 1, 2010 19:22:27 GMT -5
Karen any updates? I haven't seen gym boy for a while, it makes my smile go upside down. When I next see him I'll be so relieved that I'll beam at him. I totally have a serious crush on someone I've not even spoken to. How very 10 years old of me! I'm very much aware that it's a bit weird but hey I'm redecorating my bedroom and thinking of it in terms of a boudoir so I must be nearly ready to date
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Post by Karen on Dec 1, 2010 22:23:45 GMT -5
Nope, none. Guy I went out with a few times is low on the radar at the moment. We both have a lot going on, not sure if/when I'll see him again. Invited guy at work that needs some comfort (friendly) to drinks this past weekend with some friends but he backed out, saying he was having a hard time keeping it together. Poor thing! Holiday party is this weekend and we had some quick banter about it today. Am wearing a dress (happens once a year, if that - hate the things!) so suspect I'll at least get a bit of attention. And, yes, the bedroom re-do is a clear indicator!! Funny thing, I totally revamped mine this summer in preparation. Figure if I'm going to make a fresh start, I might as well have a sweet room to get busy in! I went with a rich eggplant walls, some (nearly) wall to wall and floor to ceiling forest green curtains, and a pale blue bed spread. I opted out of the 'stick it in!' wall decal, might have been too obvious. Went with sensual but very tasteful instead! What'd you have in mind?
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Post by cherry on Dec 2, 2010 12:44:02 GMT -5
I say you tell guy who has a lot on to get over to yours on Sunday night. Naturally a night for relaxation and maybe an early to bed thing because of the week ahead. Tell him to bring his work stuff, and maybe you can both go to work smiling on Monday As for my room I'm doing it a sort of heavenly colours thing, atm it's yellow, still. I have wallpaper that I bought 6 months ago, not sure whether to do a feature wall or the whole room (pain in the ass cos I have a sloping ceiling) so the scheme based on the wallpaper is soft white/cream, a light duck-egg type blue, brushed gold/bronze and anything in between that will go nicely. I have white and duck egg sheets, slowly swapping out for egyptian cotton as and when I can afford it, a cream iron bedstead with brushed bronze knobs and a pair of old fashioned lamps I found which match perfectly. I have a dormer window which is small ( but I get really good light so making the most of it with the pale colour scheme. I will take pictures when it's done, from what I'm planning it will be quite nice. The window is floor to ceiling and I have 2 rose plants that my cats nibble on so will move them to the kitchen sill and make giant fake flowers to decorate it and 2 crackled glass lamps with fairy lights inside that I'm thinking of buying. I'm big on lights. I was going to put a net of fairy lights across the little ceiling of the window but that might be a bit juvenile/tacky so I'm not sure. Hey maybe I'll but them and try it, take a pic and see what you classy gals think? That's my soft sex-lighting ahahaha. Or I could hang it over the window for the fake light effect at night My sister is getting me 2 bedside cabinets to replace the shelves that I have which are falling down because I keep banging my head on them (one has been taken down and the other is wobbly, I seriously have a problem with bashing my skull) and also a little flock of metal birds (or maybe the white flowers below) that you affix to the wall, I have a chimney breast in my room as it's an old converted Georgian park mansion, I will put them above the mirror on the chimney breast which will be colour matched to the duck egg on the wallpaper (if I don't wallpaper the whole room I plan to paint the other walls antique white, my carpet is a cream colour) The company also sells cute dragonflies but I'm terrified of insects so it'd be wrong. I know it sounds fussy but my room is relatively big, I have a full size computer desk and bookshelf in one alcove on the left of the chimney breast and a treble wardrobe to the right, a double bed, 2 beanbags and a chest of drawers fitted comfortably in with lots of space to spare. I'm a girly girl and this room will be all my invention whereas my bf at the time decided on the lamps and shelves etc when we first moved here, so I'd like to make it purely my space and just hope the special boy who eventually comes along will like it.
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Post by hellsbells on Dec 2, 2010 13:05:52 GMT -5
Sounds fab!
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