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Post by cherry on Mar 9, 2011 18:02:25 GMT -5
He's a commercial diver sorry might have misled you a bit but he seems really sweet. Loves The Notebook and Dear John so maybe too good to be true but we're going out when he's next home. And yay, he's taller than me! Score! He's going back tomorrow then home in 3 weeks and will be online to talk to be everyday til then. Too cute.
Karen that's the one thing I will always be grateful for. The kid reminded me of what it's like to just like sex for what it is and made me feel something and made me feel like I was worth something. I just hope to god he stays on the straight. Or I will be so bitterly disappointed.
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Post by cherry on Mar 10, 2011 19:41:13 GMT -5
I'm in love. Well not really but this will be a fun one he's got some very important values in common with me. Like: he understands that I must spend hours drying my hair and that if you touch it, you die he doesn't take himself too seriously he thinks me hugging people I barely know when I'm drunk is an admirable trait he knows the truth... that my nephew is too darn cute for words he will talk to me all day about food we're looking forward to our first date which apparently involves him cutting my hair off and me taping up his hands into mitten shapes and spraying him in the face with pepper spray
I'm going to have so much fun!
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Post by Karen on Mar 10, 2011 20:08:05 GMT -5
Ah, the fun stages... I can tell you're enjoying him!!!
Mr. CA just called, he's off on a promotional tour for a band and will be driving all over the country. Assuming the vehicle doesn't break down, there's the potential he'll end up nearby in a few weeks...
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Post by cherry on Mar 10, 2011 20:17:48 GMT -5
Wahey I think he should come on doooown!
Omg oil rig is so funny. And better still, he thinks I'm funny. Wahoo.
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Post by Karen on Mar 10, 2011 20:26:40 GMT -5
I think so, too, just depends on if the car makes it! They're driving a very specific (old) car for the promotion as it ties in with the band and the label is taking bets on how often it'll break down! And Mr. Oil Rig SHOULD think you're funny!
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Post by cherry on Mar 11, 2011 8:25:59 GMT -5
Can he maybe make a lil sidetrip away from old promo car? I miss oil rig. He's gone back this morning so no texts, he works 12 hour days for the next 3 weeks so I don't want to expect him to be online before and after work as promised. I'm so excited for our first date! He kept me company whilst I waited at the hospital yesterday by text (he thought it was one down my throat. Don't wan to share the fine points of an enema before our first date).
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Post by cherry on Mar 12, 2011 18:24:34 GMT -5
Well what do you know I was wrong about PL. I thought he'd realised we'd gone cold cos he didn't reply to a message I'd sent in the week but it turns out his phone has gone haywire or something. And it's only now that I'm clearly not interested and smiling at messages on my phone that he's making an effort to talk and all-out flirt in work with me. Which is weird for me cos we had this amazing secret chemistry when we were seeing each other. My stomach still ties itself in knots when I see him but I have to keep in mind that a) he text to tell me his friend was interested in me (WTF, I was so angry and embarrassed to even mention it til now) and b) I have this amazingly lovely boy waiting to take me out when he gets home. No girl ever turned a bad boy straight, must remember that. Totally not worth it. I hope this doesn't get awkward.
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Post by Karen on Mar 17, 2011 19:23:23 GMT -5
Hope PL is leaving you alone at least. I'm sure he's jealous - when he knows he's not getting your attention and someone else is, they can't help but act all foolish and ga ga!
So when's the first date with Mr. Far Away??
Mr. CA called me tonight. I was having drinks with some coworkers but called him on my way home. He's on the road and exhausted but still so incredibly sweet. After the long day I had, it put a permanent smile on my face. Swoon...
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Post by Karen on Mar 17, 2011 20:37:22 GMT -5
Update: Mr. CA has been on a promotional tour for a band traveling across the country, promoting their upcoming record. He sent me the link to their twitter page and I got to see a corny video of him on the road today! He's so dang cute... Sigh...
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Post by pretty on Mar 18, 2011 11:35:36 GMT -5
Ahhh.... mennnn..... yummmmmm Karen it's only a couple months until my ROAD TRIP! have to make a plan soon...
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Post by chicagogal2 on Mar 18, 2011 12:55:58 GMT -5
Ah - the fun of dating and chasing boys......us old married ladies are living vicariously thru you single ones!
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Post by cherry on Mar 18, 2011 13:55:04 GMT -5
Luckily I saw PL once for a fun filled 3 hours of awkward and the same again tomorrow! I know my best friends in work are dying to see how we interact now since all the crap went down but our schedules are not matching up. I can have a meltdown with them over it but with him he doesn't even know that I give a sh*t. Being emotionally unavailable is a problem for me but in this case is working to my advantage! 2 weeks til my boy is back and I can tote him around town like a big muscly handbag on our date! Is it ok that I want to climb all over him like a cat. He really likes my hair when it's natural and afro I have a pic of it on facebook. This may be a bone of contention. My ex saw it that way once in our 5 years as a couple. No! I look like a mop!
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Post by Karen on Mar 18, 2011 19:11:22 GMT -5
2 weeks til my boy is back and I can tote him around town like a big muscly handbag on our date! Is it ok that I want to climb all over him like a cat. Ha ha, I'm picturing you putting your head under his hand so he'll scratch you behind the ears. I hope the two weeks go fast! And CG, glad we can provide you with some entertainment! It's fun for us, too! ;D
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Post by Karen on Mar 18, 2011 19:28:37 GMT -5
Karen it's only a couple months until my ROAD TRIP! have to make a plan soon... YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by cherry on Mar 19, 2011 13:48:03 GMT -5
Haha! This puts me in mind of a pic I have of my cat climbing on my head! PL is in work, nearly sat right in front of me but is now 3 desks away, and keeps looking at me. No idea why he seems so puzzled... we're gonna be the only 2 people in the office for the last half hour. He's so sweet when he actually talks to me that I can't bear to be cold. But I still want to punch him in the balls, somewhere deep inside me.
Update: He dropped me off home and we had an awkward conversation that said nothing and spoke volumes. I'm confused and peed off with him and myself and how does he not see what he's done. I think we won't be working together for a while now but my trying to move on looks like 'treat em mean, keep em keen' and it's working. Dude I am not that smooth/clever, I am genuinely getting over you.
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