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Post by ouchy on May 27, 2009 22:45:23 GMT -5
Also, you need to have this done before your surgery. If you do happen to have something, you don't want it crawling up further during a surgery. They stick dilators and all vaginally during a lap to tilt your uterus, etc.
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Post by JC on Jun 8, 2009 21:12:30 GMT -5
THEY STUCK THINGS INTO MY VAGINA TO "DILATE"?!?!?!?!?? OH MY GOD THAT'S SOOO FREAKING WIERD!!!!!!! I'M SO MORTIFIED BY THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Post by hurtz on Jul 1, 2009 10:08:06 GMT -5
I am going to pretend that they did not stick stuff in my vagina. That just creeps me out.
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Post by omaklackey on Aug 27, 2009 15:43:36 GMT -5
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Post by scarletmoon on Sept 14, 2009 10:43:01 GMT -5
Olsenka, I too have met someone new. We had the talk before hand, and yes, it was awkward. My ex, was with me when I was diagnosed, and knew all about my problems and for awhile was good about it. But then later he got tired of having to deal with me and endo. (part of our demise)...The talk with my new guy was hard. Ill admit, trying to explain that "we cant have sex like a normal couple", Im sure was red flag for him. But he is still here...we just take it one day at a time. The pain with intercourse isnt bad most of the time...(cause Im so lubricated...blush) But rear entry is BAD....He loves it, but I cant really take it. Not for long though....so we usually switch up. Luckily, he loves missionary...lol.
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Post by hellsbells on Sept 14, 2009 12:28:37 GMT -5
Vibes are brill, I have quite a collection.....:-) Doesn't have to be mammoth to get the job done!
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Post by Karen on Sept 14, 2009 19:26:37 GMT -5
That's great that he was understanding! The last guy that I was dating never made it to that point where we had to have the talk, he ended up moving away kind of suddenly - he had some pretty big issues of his own in his life. I'm actually kind of relieved that we didn't have to have that talk, I don't think I would have been ready to then. Now that I'm feeling much better most days, I don't think it would be as emotional for me to talk about, but then again, I could surprise myself when the time actually comes. Thanks for sharing your experience, kind of gives me some courage for the next guy!
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Post by hellsbells on Sept 17, 2009 15:56:56 GMT -5
I think I'm going to give up on dating/relationships until I get to the bottom of what's going on with my insides. Was recently dating and it wasn't too much of an issue, but he was a little unreliable about keeping to arrangements we had made, and I just can't be doing with someone who is going to let me down and wreck my head, so I've just let it fizzle out. Need to look after me first........
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Post by Karen on Sept 17, 2009 18:15:14 GMT -5
I completely understand, Helen. I wasn't even interested in dating while I was in the worst of it, but am now starting to feel like I'm more ready, although I think it's safe to say my more 'casual' dating days are over because of the reason you mentioned.
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Post by scarletmoon on Oct 6, 2009 22:01:59 GMT -5
Well, unfortunately sex is going to have to chill out a little bit. The last few weeks I have had really sore insides off and on. I have IC pretty bad, along with IBS....but Ill admit, I have had more coffee drinks lately. But man, my bladder feels like its going to fall out! I have to double up when I cough usually, as it feels like Im going to give myself a hernia when I dont. Its a shame...sex has been really good up until lately. I almost wonder if its aggrivating it? He's been really understanding so far, and is into oral, so thats ok. But I cant tell if its really my bladder or around my ovaries??? Gosh, I wish I never had this problem.
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Post by sunshine78 on Oct 7, 2009 2:45:47 GMT -5
I am going to pretend that they did not stick stuff in my vagina. That just creeps me out. LMFAO. I think it was the imagined delivery of this statement that struck me as hilarious.
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Post by ouchy on Oct 7, 2009 9:35:30 GMT -5
LOL!!!! This made my day!
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Post by sayjayx3 on Oct 19, 2009 19:48:43 GMT -5
How hard was the talk about not being able to have 'normal sex?' How did your partners talk it?
I am very nervous about this talk and since even at the gyno I experience so much pain with just one finger and start crying, though i havent had sex since i found out about endo, it probably isnt a good idea....
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Post by Karen on Oct 19, 2009 19:55:15 GMT -5
I'd be curious as to how others had the talk as well. Honestly, that's about 75% of what's stopping me from wanting to even date these days...
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Post by shortieblatt on Oct 19, 2009 22:30:38 GMT -5
ok, i am glad that i am not the only 1 around here that has pain with sex. i havent had pain with sex until about 5 months ago and since then it doesnt happen very often. i dont know what out of the middle of no where it started hurting during sex. now for about 2 years now i have always had pain after sex and never understood why either. so of course things havent been all that happening for my husband now. but thank goodness he is very understanding. but does anyone have any idea why out of the middle of no where pain just starts like that. now i can say it started just before my lap staying i had endo.
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