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Post by kb on May 28, 2007 6:49:51 GMT -5
Yeah cant tolerate it at all, was working on it at one stage to get past it, and have always done other things to get around it, but lately with me being so sick the thought of sex is just awful.
When i get a little better am hoping will want it again.
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Post by shona on May 28, 2007 7:51:45 GMT -5
i find just before my period,say a week,sex is very sore..i also find different positions make sex a bit easier,spoons is quite good*man tummy your back*woman on top so you have control..missionary only if man does,nt go too deep.a big no no is doggy stylee,thats the most painful of all.agree,vibrators are fake but can if used by your partner add a bit of spice to your sex..also it is good to be lubricated before hand,then you are more likely i feel to orgasm during foreplay..oh and ouchy how safe is olive oil to use on mans rude bits,dont want to use it for sex then my fella get irratated.
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Post by gemini on Jun 3, 2007 14:21:16 GMT -5
The worst positions are.. being on top, missionary and doggy I dun think i am flexible enough to try the KAMA SUTRA positions
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Post by cherry on Jun 3, 2007 18:08:08 GMT -5
I'd say going on the locations of my endo, I'm lucky so far and I count on that cos I don't wanna start trying for children for a few years yet. Depends on what the specialist finds though. I had one painful episode though, and I completely understand how it can be so so upsetting. It's something that should come as the result of getting closer and closer to that person but instead you're in agony. How awful. I think spooning is lovely, and missionary if tried at different angles can be ok cos the depth is less, and you're facing each other so he can read your expressions. One thing I think may be worth trying is a position I read about (a lady complaining that her husband's large penis was giving her cystitis cos it bruised so much during sex) Basically it's missionary with your legs closed, so your man has his legs either side of yours rather than the other way round. I think you'd need additional lube for the legs but your thighs then stop the penis going in too far, and still create the feeling of the vagina cos it's like an extended tunnel, plus it's all a little tighter I'm guessing! I have never tried it to be honest but I hope that if someone tries it, that it helps xx
Shona I think that with olive oil being such a natural product and something that is mild enough to go in the vagina, your partner should have no problems but you can always do a spot test xx
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Post by ouchy on Jun 3, 2007 19:13:23 GMT -5
oh and ouchy how safe is olive oil to use on mans rude bits,dont want to use it for sex then my fella get irratated. I didn't see this until cherry responded. Very safe. My OBGYN recommended it both for both my husband and me. He said to coat my husband up good in it and then apply it vaginally. It's much more natural than all those chemical lubes. It's just squished olives. My husband has never had a reaction to it, and neither have I. I did, however, get reactions when using chemical lubricants. I have to say that olive oil is the best thing I have come across!
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Post by Nari on Jun 3, 2007 22:24:40 GMT -5
Hrmmmm.... Olive oil.... Now that is food for thought !! ;D Thank YA!!!
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Post by ouchy on Jun 3, 2007 23:17:30 GMT -5
LOL! Yah. And what you get on your hands, you can just rub into your legs as moisturizer! LOL! I put olive oil on everything. Even in my ears!
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Post by ouchy on Jun 3, 2007 23:19:23 GMT -5
Oh. And it's SOOOO much cheaper and less embarrassing to buy a decorative bottle of olive oil to keep by your bedside than to buy a thing of nasty, chemical lube!
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Post by ouchy on Jun 4, 2007 10:33:31 GMT -5
As mentioned in another thread, mutual masturbation can be a good alternative to painful sex or when you're just too tired or even have your period and just don't want to "do it."
You can help your partner out manually, and he can do the same. It can be much less painful than penetrative intercourse and still keeps you close both emotionally and physically.
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Post by gemini on Jun 7, 2007 15:48:20 GMT -5
I really dun like my husband touching me there...i start to giggle like a lil girl... it's ticklish...LOL
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Post by ouchy on Jun 7, 2007 19:06:28 GMT -5
LOL! Let him keep tickling you and see if it helps with lubrication.
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Post by shona on Jun 8, 2007 18:30:34 GMT -5
well ive got some olive oil,tried sex the other night but still too uncomfy,its worse when i know my periods due.il defo try the oil though,it,l spice things up if nowt else
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Post by ouchy on Jun 8, 2007 18:33:00 GMT -5
LOL! Good luck w/ the olive oil. Did you get it in a pretty bottle?
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Post by shona on Jun 8, 2007 18:38:19 GMT -5
yeah it was a nice shaped bottle.lol
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Post by gemini on Jun 11, 2007 16:53:43 GMT -5
LOL! Let him keep tickling you and see if it helps with lubrication. Theres enough lubrication for him to enter me during foreplay ..it's only when he is abt to enter me that i tense up as i know wot pain is coming my way. I feel so raw and sore from the inside .. ..even talking abt it..hurts me !
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